The 5 Love Languages:
The Secret to Love that Lasts

#1 New York Times Bestseller – Over 20 million copies sold

Explore the Love Languages

Discover the Secret to Lasting Love

The 5 Love Languages: The Secret to Love that Lasts – Gary Chapman’s timeless guide has helped millions of couples deepen their relationships. This updated edition includes a new cover and the love language assessment.

✔️ Over 20 million copies sold worldwide
✔️ #1 New York Times Bestseller for over a decade
✔️ Includes the official Love Language assessment

Falling in love is easy. Staying in love—that’s the challenge. Dr. Chapman explains that everyone has a primary love language: Words of Affirmation, Quality Time, Receiving Gifts, Acts of Service, or Physical Touch. By learning your partner’s love language, you can fill their emotional tank and experience deeper intimacy.

The Five Love Languages

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Words of Affirmation

Uplifting words, compliments, and encouragement.

⏳

Quality Time

Undivided attention and meaningful moments.

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Receiving Gifts

Thoughtful presents that say “I love you.”

🛠️

Acts of Service

Doing chores or tasks to lighten their load.

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Physical Touch

Hugs, kisses, and affectionate touch.

What Readers Are Saying

Jenny Fratzke ★★★★★

"Practical Tips In Building a Stronger Marriage. I purchased my first copy in 1992… this classic is an excellent resource for small groups and couples."

Dec 29, 2025

Jovie Glee ★★★★★

"Excellent advice on how to improve relationships. One of the best and most useful I've ever seen. The concept is simple yet profound."

Nov 21, 2018

Lena (Germany) ★★★★★

"Mehr als ein Ratgeber – dieses Buch sollte jeder lesen, der seine Beziehung verbessern möchte. Sehr verständlich und hilfreich."

Apr 8, 2016

Frequently Asked Questions

What are the 5 love languages?

Words of Affirmation, Quality Time, Receiving Gifts, Acts of Service, and Physical Touch. Everyone has a primary love language that speaks most deeply to them.

Is this book only for married couples?

No, the principles apply to any relationship—dating, friendships, even parent-child relationships. There are also editions specifically for singles, men, and children.

Does the book include the love language assessment?

Yes, this edition contains the official Love Language assessment so you and your partner can discover your primary love languages.

How can I use this book if my partner isn't interested?

The book offers practical advice on how to apply the love languages even when only one person is trying. You can still learn to speak your partner's language and often they will respond positively.

The 5 Love Languages:The Secret to Love that Lasts